Love and Marriage? So You're in Love....... and you want to get Married? We at the Hitching Post have some ideas that will help you decide if he or she is "The Right One" for you. Consider some of the following:  Please when planning your wedding, plan for your lives together, not just
the wedding ceremony and reception. Marriage goes on long after the celebration. Is this the one you want to be married to for the rest of your life as this
is to be a lifetime commitment? Love is - A behavior: Kindness etc... It is something you do.
"So in everything, do to others what you would have them do to you.... "Matthew 7:12And are you the kind of person your spouse can't wait to come home to? "Love is doing what is best for the other person no matter
what it costs you." - Joe Wittwer
"However, each one of you also must love his wife as he loves
himself, and the wife must respect her husband." Do you understand the difference between men and women, that
women respond to love positively because they were created that way, and men respond to respect because that is the way they are created. Ephesians 5:33 "Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast,
it is not proud. It is not rude, it is not self-serving (selfish), it is not easliy angered' it keeps
no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects,
always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres. I Corinthians 13:4-7 (NIV)
WE have some books we recommend for you to read: "Love and Respect" by Emmerson Eggerich "The 5 Love Languages" by Gary Chapman "The Proper Care and Feeding of Husbands" by Dr. Laura Schlessinger "His Needs, Her Needs" by William Harley "Communication, Key To Your Marriage" by H. Norman Wright "Before You Say I DO" by N. Wright "For Better For Best" by Gary Smalley "Love For A Lifetime" by James Dobson "Love Is A Decision" by Gary Smalley
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